International Woman’s Day is
coming soon, 8th March 2014. How do we embrace ourselves in this
celebration? Being a Wonder Woman in current era is not an easy task. These days women
are more multitasking and being more empowered in decision making in workplace
and family. The UN theme for International Women's Day 2014 is "Equality
for Women is Progress for All”. Some non-government organizations consider the
official recognition of International Women's Day as an important reminder of
women's role in the society. Thus we have the upper hand to become independent
and received recognition of our rights.
Social media and press play huge influence
towards young woman these days. Women
are expected to carry themselves in certain portrayed image by the society. Such
influence may be positive whereby we can cultivate independency and empowerment.
Some may be negative influence such as sexual exploitation and perverse standards
which leads to insecurity and inferior. Yes, perhaps we may not inherit
beautiful face like Angelina Jolie or Victoria Secret’s body. All of us comes in
different sizes and shapes in terms of physical appearance. Some women have higher earning power in corporate and some earn lesser. Some are more popular than others. There is no perfection in everything
because definition of “perfect” differs for everyone.
Is there a time where you
are dissatisfied with your appearance? Or is there a time where you regretted for
decision you made in the past? Or is there a time where you could have turn
back your clock and strife for more? The answer is “Dont Be”. It is never too late
to pick yourself up and move forward.
So how do we embrace ourselves in
every aspect?
1.
Physical
appearance
If you have a hooded
eyes or crooked nose, embrace it because this is you being a unique person. God
creates you individually. There is nothing you can do about it unless spending
thousand bucks for cosmetic surgery. Chances of getting your preferred outcome
may not be as what you expected. If you
think you are unfit or overweight, have a routine work out that keeps you stay
in shape. Consult your trusted personal trainer or even read up some fitness
book. Make a habit to eat healthy. Invest a good skin care/facial regime. When you are healthy and fit, you will feel good
and able to encourage and take care of others as well. Sign up a grooming or
personal makeup class. Have a makeover according to your features. Not all makeup
application is the same. You need to identify your face features. Dress up
according to your body shape and appropriately. Always be comfortable with yourself. You are not trying to gain acknowledgment and acceptance from society.
2.
Renewed
mind
Our mind is our
No.1 factor to determine and affect our thoughts and decision making. We need to renew our mind
everyday with encouragement. We cannot avoid disappointment in our life. But we can choose not to be discouraged. If you are suffering from low self esteem or perhaps you need guidance/advice in your life, career, family, finance etc, do get support from your family and trusted friends be it
from workplace, school, churches etc. Read up self help books and enrol motivational
seminar. Get rid of the word “weird” which referring to you. Instead, you are special in God’s eye. Trash out your pride, strife, jealousy, greed and self centred
mindset. Respect and treat others well as how you want to be treated. A daily
reminder for us (even though we love comparison): DO NOT COMPARE with others. Stay AWAY from grapevine at work place. Be responsible and dedicated at work as an employee. As an employer, treat your staff well and reward them accordingly for they have work hard to earn living. Be generous and kind to one another.
3.
Relationship
Forgive those
who hurt or betrayed your trust and offended your feeling. Get rid of bitterness
and resentment because it will consume you physically, emotionally and mentally. If you
have a relationship that you need to reconcile, do it now. Then the burden or excess baggage will be
removed from your shoulders. You are set free and able to move forward. If you have
conflicts with your parents, please bear in mind that they have raised you up
and they may not be with you forever. If you have fought with your best friend,
call and apologies because sincere and genuine friendship takes times to build. Respect
and love your spouse. Submit to your husband accordingly as he is the leader of
the family. Always compromise in a relationship. Truly, we are Wonder Woman
today but we must be subtle and feminine in certain ways when you are in relationship with surrounding people. It may not be easy but it can be learn and done.
4.
Savings
Compared to those days, women have to depend on their spouse to be the sole provider for the family. As for today, we have the capability to work and support ourselves. However this does not mean that we can squander all our hard earn savings. As a woman whether you are married or single, a back
up funds is important. Be thrifty and
keep track towards your spending. Women are easily tempted to buy unnecessary
stuff. Have you ever wondered where did your monies goes? Set aside for monthly budget from necessity to leisure. When you are
able to manage your finance well, you are able to save yourself from debts and
trouble later. As for the wives, it is a good opportunity for managing your
household expenditures.
There is more aspect to cover in
our life but these are common topic to raise up. Never give up and pursue your happiness. Start to love and embrace
yourselves!
Happy International Women’s Day!
By Cherlyn Tan
CL Makeup Artistry
Enhancing Your God Given Beauty
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